Sunday, July 04, 2010

Nashville Mission Trip: Day 3

What a day we had!  I switched over to one of our other teams that had Patty Sutton as their leader.  Today we went to a day shelter for homeless people.  When we arrived we split up into teams to do various jobs inside and outside the building.  I took two of the teens outside to clean up around the facility.  It was a little hard to do this at first because there were many homeless people already outside watching everything we do.  And a lot of what we had to clean up was from them: cigarette butts, wine bottles, beer cans, etc.  It was hard for me from the stand point that there were 3 large trashcans right in the area they hang out yet the evidence of their vices were littered all over the ground.  But the teens and I did our best and as we were cleaning we got to talking to some of the homeless people.  I eventually got them to move so that I could clean up around the bench that some of them were sitting on.  There was one guy in particular that seemed very outgoing towards everyone but extremely intoxicated also.  He reminded me of the coalminer in “Blazing Saddles”.  He meant well, but it was very hard to understand him.  Once we cleaned up the outside we checked in with the other groups inside.  There we some teens cleaning up shelves in the back, some were helping make lunch, some were helping in the laundry area, and some helped with serving and cleaning up lunch when all was done.  This was an intense experience for me in that there were so many homeless compacted in one area.  The entire cafeteria was filled and all the other serves were very busy with people coming in and out.  Being there for the first time was hard feeling like a complete outsider.  I knew that if I would have been here for a week or so I would feel more comfortable getting to know some of them.  But being there for the first day I felt good about my ability to complete tasks yet nervous about reaching out to the people. Our teens did really well with everything that was asked of them.  Just as we were leaving the homeless facility one of the guys who was there stopped us and prayed for us.  It was a very meaningful and touching prayer that he said for our team.  

After that we went to a church called Family Affair Ministries.  This church was having a day camp for their elementary age kids.  Many of our teens had the opportunity to spend time with the kids playing out on the playground, playing sports and also watching them prepare for their program they were working on for their closing program.  It was a really nice church and once again the kids were just amazingly wonderful to spend time with for the afternoon.  Our teens did a great job warming up to the kids and integrating in with them all throughout the day. 

We then left and went to dinner.  The group I was with went to an Indian restaurant.  It was amazing food.  We all ate really, really well.  The other groups went to a Vietnamese and Ethiopian restaurant.  They came back with not so glowing reviews.  Some of it was good, some of it wasn’t. 

For the evening all of our teams ended up at Family Affairs Ministries church for a concert.  We were the first group to arrive when the evening already started.  It began with the pastor of the church who gave a challenge that was bold, loud and bordering on Pentecostal.  She was amazing and extremely compelling and you knew you were in trouble if you yawned or looked bored.  Then the singer started up and she was really, really good.  At first all of our teens were sitting together looking like the suburbanite, middle-class, vanilla folks that stood out from the rest.  But half way into the concert our teens were dancing with all of the church kids and celebrating and worshiping together.  You began to get a picture of what the kingdom of God will look like one day.  It was an awesome sight.  Our teens were spiritually energized from the experience. 

We came back to our home base and had our debriefing time.  There were many stories about serving in a mobile soup kitchen, playing with kids, working at an urban garden, and interacting with all types of people. 

All the teens are in bed now and we are getting ready for another day!  Tomorrow is our “Urban experience” exercise and it should be a great activity for the teens to learn about the challenges of homelessness.  This was a powerful experience on the New York trip so I am looking forward to watching the teens go through this and hearing their stories.

Nashville Mission Trip: Day 2

Alrighty!  The first full day of the mission trip!  It started out with the energy of everyone hustling and bustling to get ready to head off to their sites.  One of the rules that were laid out was that showers needed to be 5 minutes long in order for everyone to get through.  And the kicker here is that the entrance to the showers is right next to the kitchen so everyone knows when you went in and came out.  It just so happened that one of our new 9th graders thought he was taking a 5 minute shower according to his relative definition of the word “time” but he was easily exceeding 15 minutes and everyone knew it.  He summarily got booed by the whole group when he tried to casually walk out of the shower room and one of the leaders assigned him dish duty for the entire day.  He was responsible for EVERYONE’S dirty dishes!  This was quite delightful to me since this was my own flesh and blood.  It was fun to see peer pressure met out punishment without me having to do hardly anything. 

Our group got split up into three teams.  We made our lunches, had our team devotions and then headed off to our sites.  My team for the day was lead by Ann Mosby.  We had a small group of the new 8th grade girls.  We went to one of the Boys and Girls Clubs for the morning.  I was not too excited about this because of my experience with the Boys and Girls Club on our Chicago trip last Summer, but this was a much different experience.  In Chicago it was hard to get to know the kids and many of them were oblivious to us.  But in Nashville I was blown away by how nice the kids were with our teenagers.  They bombarded all of the teens with attention and affection as we played with them out in the playground, in the gym, and in their game room.  There was never an awkward moment.  If there was a slight moment where I was not doing something, I instantly had a kid in my face saying, “Hey, play with me.” And they would pull me into a basketball game, a foosball game, a ping-pong game, a bumper pool game or a carpetball game.  In fact we played several rounds of thumb wars too.  The kids at this club were all really sweet and fun to be with.  All of our teens felt that they really contributed to the success of the organization and had a lot of fun doing it. 

At lunch time we ate outside in this park that had a beautiful WW2 memorial.  And I do need to say that there is just something about the peanut butter and jelly sandwich on a mission trip.  It tastes so extraordinarily good for some reason! 

After lunch we headed out to the Second Harvest Food Bank.  When we pulled up we realized that we would be with one of the other teams for the afternoon, Karen Krammes’ team of new Freshmen!  The Food Bank people took us in to their food packing area.  Giant bins of food needed to be sorted out in categories of good vs. bad food.  99% of it ended up being good so then it went over to the conveyor belt.  There all the food was thrown onto the belt and a large majority of the teens were spread out at stations which would collect and box specific types of food that they would see coming down the belt.  This kept up at quite a steady pace where the time went fast and the kids worked hard.  They packed several pallets of food that ended up being an estimated 10,000-12,000 pounds of food! 

We called it quits soon after 3:30 and then got a full tour of the facility.  The teens were most impressed with their freezer warehouse.  The cold room was a nice contrast to the heat that we had to put up with throughout the day. 

That night we went to dinner at a restaurant called Sheets.  It was a sole food joint.  It was amazing.  Many of the teens got fried chicken with the cheesiest macaroni and cheese ever.  I had to go out on a limb more and I got the turkey and gravy with stuffing with a side of cabbage and sweet potatoes.  I know that sounds like a traditional Thanksgiving meal but it was cooked and served in a completely different way.  It was excellent. 

Just after dinner we did a prayer tour of the city.  We went to a variety of sights that showed the glitz and glimmer of the city as well as the dark and depressing sights.  The one that stood out the most for me was when we went down to the Tennessee Titans stadium.  We stood on the sidewalk right outside of the stadium.  It was then explained to us that the building right next door was the Juvenile Detention Center.  We talked about the contrast and similarities of these two landmarks.  The kids came up with a lot of interesting thoughts.  Then the question was asked, “Where would Jesus be if he were here?”  Many felt that he would be spending more time helping at the Juvenile Detention Center.  Our CSM director challenged us to recognize that Jesus would be standing in the center of these two contrasting worlds.  With that we were challenged to identify with Christ who would “stand in the gap” by lying down on the sidewalk that separated these two organizations and pray for all the people that are represented in their spheres.  It was a cool experience.  We also saw the contrast of the rich and the poor within the distance of one block.  It was an eye opener for many of our teens. 

When we arrived back at our home base, we had a debriefing time with everyone together and heard a lot of interesting stories such as: Mallory trying to help a guy with no arms, some of the teens helping to give a meal to homeless people, other teens spending time with other city kids at other clubs, and so on.  All of them seemed to have a really good day.  Our debrief time went well as I challenged all of our teens to let go of their masks and labels that they all have of themselves and each other at school.  Do not allow the things that divide us into categories affect us on this trip.  We are all children of God here doing what Christ has called us to do!  It ended up being a good evening with the girls going to bed immediately and the boys needing some “encouragement”. 

Nashville Mission Trip: Day 1

Well, we had a rather uneventful trip down to Nashville.  We ran into a few storms but other than that it was beginning to become a rather boring, sleepy ride.  After I just laid down the law about energy drinks being off limits, I found myself about two hours into the trip stopping at a gas station in order to down a double shot espresso Starbucks energy drink with a box of Nutter Butters. Yum!  It was just the thing to get an injection of caffeine, B vitamins and sugar, to keep me fully alert and then some for the rest of the trip. 

Of course I was extremely excited to finally be on a mission trip with my new GPS!  For all the students who have been on trips with me over the past 20 years they can attest to the fact that every once in a while I would get our team a little tiny bit lost as I try to navigate our mission team through the subway systems of New York, or the Loop in Chicago, or New Orleans after the Katrina mess, or the hills of Pittsburgh.  BUT NOW I HAVE A GPS!  No more getting lost and heading the wrong way!  But as fate would have it, I was coming up to a split in the road and hesitated for one moment, questioning the advice from my handy-dandy GPS.  And wouldn’t you know it, in a split second I found myself on the wrong road.  I quickly got the phone calls from all the cell phones of certain teenagers letting me know of my mistake.  Luckily, my GPS was more forgiving and gave me the quick route to get back on track . . . recalculating . . . recalculating . . . recalculating.  

We arrived at the Eastside Baptist Church and met our Center for Student Missions team.  They are a sharp bunch of 20 somethings.  I was impressed with what appears to be a team that are friendly, fun and excited about what they are doing.  They got us situated into our rooms.  What is different this year is that we are all sleeping together on the floor in the church.  We do not have dorm style quarters like previous trips.  So the energy that is created in putting a bunch of junior high boys together all in the same room is enough to power a major city.  Being the first night of the trip they are WIRED! 

Once we got settled into our rooms the CSM team took us out to dinner.  We went to a Greek restaurant and enjoyed a delicious meal.  There was lamb, chicken, rice, cilantro and cucumber sauce on our plates.  Throw them all together in the little pita breads provided and BAM! You got yourself Greek bliss that makes your taste buds sing. 

We came back to the church for orientation.  They covered many rules.  Of course my 9th grade boys want to know if they can drink coffee.  Coffee = caffeine = energy drink!  NO! Unless of course they already have a healthy adult-size addiction to it. 

Now it is time for them to go to bed!  Lights out at 10:30PM!  This is always a sick pleasure of mine since I know that many of them have gotten themselves used to staying up till 1 or 2 AM.  They have to be reminded that only a month ago the got up at 6AM and went to bed around 9 or 10.  So the girls went right to bed and the boys needed some help.  Extra doses of sternness and threats.  One good day of hot weather and hard work ought to take some of the edge off of their insane energy and get them to embrace “lights-out time” tomorrow!  

Our teens have been broken down into three different groups that will be doing different things throughout the week.  I think we have some really good teams that should work well together.  There is already a little bit of nerves among the girls but I think all will be just fine once they get to experience ministry together and have to depend on each other more. 

Well with that I better hit the sack too.  I am not the only one who has gotten used to late nights during the Summer months. 

And let me say if just ONE MORE GIRL asks me to take them to go see Twilight 3 (Eclipse) for our free night I just might blow a gasket.  I am half tempted to take them to a real hoedown with live country music and make them line dance till the pass out.  Vampires do NOT glisten in the sunlight.  THEY DIE!  Werewolves do not run around with a pack of guys shirtless in the woods!  That’s just a little weird!  All the mythology that makes those dark characters great have been mocked in Twilight!  I am more of a Harry Potter fan anyhow.  Okay, enough rambling.  It’s time for bed.